When you sit back and truly ponder the choices you’ve made throughout your life and the reality those decisions created, you begin to see a clear picture of why you are the way you are. Before you slide down the wall screaming, “ Why me?”, Understand that deep down, you already know why. You played a part in shaping this reality. It’s not that you asked for betrayal from a lustful boyfriend or to be fired from your mediocre job, but you did ask for true love and a job that ignites your passions. The journey to those desires might come with unexpected challenges and lessons. This does not mean you can’t reach the things you’ve been praying for; it just means you have to be the person ready to receive them. You must forgo the placeholders, the comfortability, and anything else that is not strengthening your mind, body, and spirit. Lastly, rid yourself of anything or anyone that could stand between your connection to yourself and the reality you are seeking. Embracing Personal Responsibility I feel like my frontal lobe is developing because I’m finally starting to recognize the blame I easily shift onto others instead of taking accountability. In … Continue reading Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes